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November 20, 2024

Self-Care to Help with Postpartum Depression

by Steve Liam

For many new mums postpartum depression feels like a quiet heavy weight. While medical treatment is often needed, self-care can also help manage symptoms. This isn’t about luxury or pampering – it’s about taking small, simple steps that support mental, physical and emotional health. Self-care can help you feel more grounded, give you strength during a crazy time.

Self-care can mean many things – activities that focus on relaxation, health and small achievements. These small actions add stability and make the daily load feel a little lighter. But many mums struggle to self-care, feeling guilty, time poor or thinking taking a moment for themselves is selfish. But seeing self-care as part of the recovery, not a luxury can be powerful.

Creating a Safe Space

Creating a routine isn’t about following strict schedules; it’s about adding a flexible framework that feels solid and comforting. A routine with small, achievable tasks can reduce stress by making mums feel more in control of their time. Simple things – 10 minutes of journaling in the morning, a short walk with the baby or making a healthy snack – can create a rhythm and a sense of normality. Flexibility is key – if one activity doesn’t work one day, it’s okay to skip or swap it out without guilt. This way mums can have freedom within structure and routines feel achievable.

Having small, achievable goals also helps build confidence and a sense of progress. Many mums feel like they have to do everything at once, but breaking goals down into smaller steps makes them manageable. Small goals – taking a shower each day, stretching for 5 minutes, doing one household chore – can give you a sense of achievement and boost your mood. Adjust these goals daily to keep routines realistic and sustainable and honour your mental and physical needs.

Physical Care to Boost Your Mood and Energy

Good sleep is tough to get as a new mom, but it’s super important. Poor sleep can make moods feel worse and lower your energy. If you can, try to nap when your baby naps or ask someone to help at night. Even getting some rest during the day can help you feel stronger for the next day.

Eating well and drinking water can also help. Many new moms are so busy and tired that they skip meals or grab fast snacks. Try to choose simple, healthy foods like fruits, veggies, and nuts. Drinking enough water is also important—it helps your brain stay sharp and your energy up. Simple snacks like a handful of nuts or a quick smoothie can help, even when you’re short on time.

Moving your body, even a little, can boost your mood. Try short walks, stretches, or gentle yoga to get moving and feel better. Getting some fresh air and sunlight is a bonus, as sunlight can lift your mood.

Emotional and Mental Self-Care

Mindfulness and breathing exercises can help calm stress and anxiety. Mindfulness just means paying attention to what’s happening right now. When things feel overwhelming, take a few deep breaths. Try inhaling for four seconds, holding your breath for four, and then exhaling for six seconds. This can help calm down panicky feelings. You can also try apps that have short mindfulness exercises for busy days.

Journaling can be a great way to handle your feelings. Writing things down lets you see what you’re feeling and get it out. You don’t have to write anything fancy. Simple prompts like “Today, I’m thankful for…” or “One good thing that happened today was…” can help you notice the positives. Writing can also show you patterns over time, helping you see what makes you feel better or worse.

Social media can sometimes make things harder. Seeing perfect pictures of motherhood can add pressure. Try to limit time on social media or follow accounts that feel supportive and real. It can make a big difference in how you feel about yourself.

Lean on Your Support System

Asking for help from family and friends isn’t a weakness. Loved ones can help by watching the baby, doing a chore, or just being there to talk. If you let them know what you need, they can help in a way that really makes a difference. Sharing some tasks also gives you a little break to recharge, which is so important.

Support groups are another way to feel connected. In these groups, moms going through similar things can share, listen, and feel understood. Some groups meet in person, while others are online. Virtual groups let you connect from home, giving you the chance to feel less alone.

Get Professional Support

Talking to a mental health professional can also help a lot. Therapists or counselors who understand postpartum depression can work with you on ways to feel better. They have tools and resources that can make a big difference, especially if things feel really tough. Therapy is a safe space to talk openly and get helpful advice.

Postpartum wellness programs and workshops can also provide new ideas and skills. Many places, like hospitals or wellness centers, offer classes or groups to support moms with postpartum depression. These programs cover things like mindfulness, gentle exercise, and healthy eating. They give you tools and a supportive community to lean on, making self-care feel more doable.

Reclaiming Your Well-Being

Self-care isn’t just a list of tasks—it’s a way to find your footing during a challenging time. Taking small, steady steps can help moms feel more grounded and ready to face each day. Healing is a slow process, and it’s okay to start small. Just try one or two new self-care ideas and go from there. Each step forward counts, and each win matters. Taking care of yourself is not only possible, but it’s also important for your mental and emotional health.


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